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What is wrong with Indian Parents?

Heyaa,

How are you?
I am seriously not doing great after this incident which i am going to tell you right now.

So, i was travelling in Delhi Metro and was not feeling good.
I boarded from Subhash Nagar.
Usually, the seats are always full at blue line but on that day the seats were empty as it was afternoon.

I was in ladies coach as always and honestly I prefer that because of less crowd.

So, the point was I was feeling really weak and I saw some empty seats and I took one seat and another one for my bag.

As rajiv chowk arrived, I knew the train will be full and I saw a lady she came to me and asked me to give her seat.

As she was looking a bit old, I decided to give her my seat.

Moreover, she came directly to me. So, it was my duty to give her seat. Though, I was not feeling well but yeah my parents told me to help everyone.

I have to deboard at Karkardooma which is again a good distance.

At Pragati Maidan, I felt like fainting there.Everything was getting blurred.

All I remember, is a girl sitting right opposite to me.

I was about to faint but then because of public humiliation I decided to ask her for a seat, thinking she will help me, She was looking fit and fine and not like me,(you know out of senses)

To my response, she did that.

I told her I am not feeling well so please if you can give me your seat.

I was getting late and was not in a mood to deboard at any station except Karkardooma.

She took it, in a positive way and gave me her seat.

And to my shock she was the daughter of the same lady who asked me for a seat.
After coming to my senses, I felt so betrayed.
I just wanted to say her I am like your daughter, you took my seat and make your daughter sit on another seat and later on pampering her and asking her to take your seat.

Is it good?

To every parent who behave like this, are you doing right?

What values are you giving to your children?

What they are getting from you?

That face of the lady is still in my eyes.

How she came to me and asked me to give her seat and that too after making your daughter comfortable on another seat.

What will happen, if she will travel in a metro by standing on her feet.

Do not make your kids so weak and m telling you in future they wont be able to do anything.

I travel almost daily in a metro and on most of the days by standing through out my travel.

And its okay. Its good.

But this type of parenting is a big No.

Sorry, but with no values and courage, your kids will never become independent.

I am sorry but this is the thing so wrong with Indian Parents.

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